Feel confused when you hear 2 sides of a discussion and don't understand why people have different recollections of a single event? Emotions...
Logic, obtained through critical thinking, is the only way to have a single, unified recollection. Use facts, and not emotions, to lead you to your conclusions.
While subjective opinions may lead to different preferences (say Colt over LMT), we can agree on the facts (both are mil-spec weapons suitable for our purpose(s)).
The difficulty, for most, is not letting the emotion alter perception of the facts... The only advice I have ... focus and breathe. If you have other methods, do let me know...
Good day!
